Ok so I was here venting at the time about my BF's daughter.  I got away from that mess.  I have just found out that his daughter(16 in 2 months) has totally crossed all possible boundaries and he is sitting st home havign panic attacks becasuse she ran away instead of "allowing" her father to ground her.  This just goes to show that his failure to parent his daughter and BM's influence on his daughter is ruining his life and he is allowing it.  Well, here is the story: