My dear SO has struggled with BM for the last 5 years folks.  He hasn't brought anyone else around SD until me. I met her for the first time in October, BM flew with her because she will not allow SO to hire an airline escort, SO pays for flight and hotel for BM while SD visits. OBviously this is ridiculous and expensive, BM knows this and greedily chooses the most expensive airline and must stay at a nice hotel. Otherwise she will not come. Threatens not to come multiple times leading up to the visit. She doesnt know about me before the visit and doesnt know that I am meeting her daughter. May be considered wrong by some, but if she knew about me theres no way in hell she would allow it without a long drawn out court battle. Even then, she probably wouldn't comply.

So since SD left and BM now knows, she has not allowed SO to talk to SD on the phone. At first she would act like SD was in the room , throw the phone on the floor so its showing the ceiling, and then tell him " She doesn't want to talk to you"... Right. 

Now she just declines every phone call, texts him saying she never got the call or that SD doesnt want to talk to him. 

Texts SO to tell him how horrible he is, how ridiculous, bad father, blah blah blah....

I glanced at the text feed from her and noticed a video yesterday that she had sent so I asked him to show me.

BM and SD are singing in the video, SD was super cute hitting all the notes but BM keeps taking over the show with super seductive moves and sends it to him saying " Heres some Christmas Cheer, You need it"

WHat the F***

So she's somehow insane enough to think after all the psycho BS shes pulled that she will seduce him back to her.  HE just laughed and I could tell he was really embarrassed like, I can't believe I married this B-

It still bothers me, I just gotta let it go.