Well step satan is gone, DH drove him 17 hours and has put him in the home of his late mother’s family. Before leaving, he stole my money and was smoking pot in the house, then tried to cover it up using his fathers cologne. I hope that I never have to see him again, but my kids and my parents are wagering that after 90 days he will be returning. That I won’t go through again. So getting my stuff in order and moving on with my plans to buy me and my kids a house separate from the toxic dump I’ve endured for the past 3 years. Then if DH wants to remain DH he will grow up and be a functioning husband instead of a juvenile. PSA.... never ever never never never live with family, his or yours. If the step kids aren’t distructive enough don’t add enabling in-laws to this.