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Cover1W's picture

Submitted by Cover1W on Wed, 04/10/2019 - 5:34am

DHsis had a good chat with DH this morning and essentially said the same things I have, but from her perspective. It was good. She also totally got me, like, it's so stressful having her here and her attitude is over the top. Imagine living with that I added. "God." Was the response. Anyway OSD, I think, still doesn't know we are going away tonight. DH tried blaming me for not telling her...um no.

Now OSD is throwing up ... Oh joy 

Will update you later...more family arrived.

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Monkeysee's picture

Submitted by Monkeysee on Wed, 04/10/2019 - 7:59am

Why would he assume you told her, you told him from the start you weren't involving yourself with the SD's on this trip.  Grow a pair DH, she's a 15yo girl!!  Jeeeeeeez

Winterglow's picture

Submitted by Winterglow on Wed, 04/10/2019 - 8:55am

She is SO lucky to be ill there! Imagine, she could have been sick in a place where nobody knew where the nearest doctor was! Or the nearest hospital! Instead, she has her aunt who knows the region like the back of her hand! And an aunt who "understands" her, to boot! 

LOL

Besides that, it sounds to me as if, should your dh start to consider staying home with his precious princess, his sister will but him out the door, right?

Cover1W's picture

Submitted by Cover1W on Wed, 04/10/2019 - 11:01am

Apparently OSD was not feeling well yesterday. Didn't tell anyone but DH older sis. DH, DH sis and I had no idea. Had to explain this to DH older sis (who is a little less knowledgeable about whole situation). Also had to explain to her that yes, we were aware she was ill thus morning but *I* cannot help her when she is sick because she has burned tgat bridge years ago by biting my head off multiple times when I tried to comfort or help her. OSD also rejects all medicine, teas, drinks that might be good for her since she refuses to take them, so no, there's nothing to give her.

And no DH never told her I think but claims he did so weeks ago when he met her for the dinner and movie night. I'm out of that discussion totally.

She was working DH older sis hard...i.e. no one helped me (not true and door was locked anyway), misses mom, homesick, doesn't want anything, etc. I have compassion and helped DH sis get some things for her. But that's it. Apparently she is feeling a bit better now. The rest of the trip should be interesting as she's certainly going to spin this against DH (and have a horrible trip to England). We're to see if DH sis is able to chat with her between now and Friday when we leave.

Meanwhile went out with DH older sis and her family for an outing, along with YSD, we had fun! YSD is a different person without OSD around...and didn't mind in the least what DH and I were doing tonight.

And now at magnificent Inn with DH and about ready for drinks, a walk and a multi course meal ... 

 

Winterglow's picture

Submitted by Winterglow on Wed, 04/10/2019 - 3:02pm

Oh, FFS, she's nearly an adult and can't handle a week away from mummykins ... pathetic. 

As for spinning a tale, she's in England with people who haven't lived her last few years and who will judge the situation on the few days they've seen her. She will not come out well.