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NO, BioHo

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Submitted by Aniki-Moderator on Wed, 03/27/2019 - 11:32am

Remember when BioHo texted me a couple weeks ago? 
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https://www.steptalk.org/blog/aniki/oh-bioho-252717

When DH and I finally "caught up" with one another that weekend, he rolled his eyes and said, "Just f*cking ignore her." Which I did. Well, BioHo doesn't like being ignored.

DH's car needed some work so he decided to take the day off and surprise me. SO sweet of him as I've been very stressed lately. I came home (ready to chew rebar) to a trail of silk rose petals from the kitchen door, down the hallway, and into the bedroom. No lights, but a bunch of jar candles. And set up on the bed was a lovely 'picnic' of cheese, crackers, veggies, cold shrimp, smoked trout... and DH wearing only a pair of shorts holding a bottle of my favorite champagne! (Have I mentioned I totally adore my husband?)

I'm halfway through a glass of champagne and getting a LOVELY foot massage when there's a knock at the door. We ignored, thinking it was probably an Amazon delivery.

Louder knock.
Continue to ignore.
LOUDER AND LONGER knock and my phone dings that I have a text message. DH hands me my phone.

       is me cn we tlk

DH: Who is it?
Me: BioHo
DH: SONOFAF*CKINGB!TCH!!! Drink your champagne, baby. I'll be right back!

~stomps to the door and FLINGS it open~

DH: WTF do you want?
Ho: Oh I um what are YOU doing here?
DH: I f*cking LIVE here. WHAT DO YOU WANT?!
Ho: I wanted to talk to Aniki.
DH: Aniki is busy.
Ho: ~hurriedly~ I need to talk to her about SD22!
DH: No.
Ho: What??
DH: I said NO.
Ho: You can't tell her...
DH: OH YES I F*CKING CAN. SD22 is MY GD daughter.
Ho: Well Aniki...
DH: Aniki has NOTHING to do with SD22 and her shit behavior.
Ho: SD22 needs...
DH: To grow the f*ck up. AND YOU NEED TO GET OFF MY GD PORCH.
~SLAMS DOOR~

DH: Now. Where were we, baby?
Pretty much just drooling over your machismo, DH.

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Siemprematahari's picture

Submitted by Siemprematahari on Wed, 03/27/2019 - 11:35am

Lawd have mercy the nerve of this woman!!!!

How I crush on your H Aniki! I hope you thanked him for a job well done....

Wink

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Submitted by Aniki-Moderator on Wed, 03/27/2019 - 11:53am

Oh, I thanked him. As soon as I got done drooling and he finished up that foot massage. I thanked him. And thanked him...

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Submitted by justmakingthebest on Wed, 03/27/2019 - 11:43am

My DH would have been SUPER rewarded for that! 

Is it wrong that this read like a dirty fantasy book page to me? LOL

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Submitted by Aniki-Moderator on Wed, 03/27/2019 - 11:54am

Is it wrong that this read like a dirty fantasy book page

NOT AT ALL! It's things like this I want to write in my own personal little black book of fantasies and relive...

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Submitted by ProbablyAlready... on Wed, 03/27/2019 - 12:04pm

Your DH... Needs to teach mine how to be romantic... Mine brought me a snickers bar yesterday as a surprise and called it good. LOL

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Submitted by Aniki-Moderator on Wed, 03/27/2019 - 12:09pm

PA, my DH swears he isn't romantic. But on rare occasion, he does something like this. The moments are few and VERY far between, but (IMO) that makes them more meaningful.

BTW, do you LIKE Snickers? That means he's thinking of you. Smile

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Submitted by ProbablyAlready... on Wed, 03/27/2019 - 12:21pm

I do like snickers. And yes that does mean he was thinking of me. Smile

But that was damn romantic of your DH!

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Submitted by Aniki-Moderator on Wed, 03/27/2019 - 12:43pm

He later admitted he'd bought the rose petals for Valentine's Day but forgot them. I don't care! lol

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Submitted by ndc on Wed, 03/27/2019 - 12:47pm

LOL.  I'd take a Snickers bar over candles, flower petals and a foot massage any day.  I mean, it's chocolate.  And nougat.  And caramel.  And peanuts.  Now I'm hungry.

Now, what Aniki's awesome hubby did definitely seems more romantic.  But I really like a Snickers bar.

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Submitted by Aniki-Moderator on Wed, 03/27/2019 - 12:49pm

Ndc, as much as I like chocolate (and Snickers), I'll take that smoked trout EVERY time!

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Submitted by ProbablyAlready... on Wed, 03/27/2019 - 1:06pm

LMAO. He's good at food and little gifts I admit. But when it comes to little romantic gestures. He definitely has a man brain. Wink

The snickers was yummy... However I was trying to go sugar free starting yesterday and it kind of ruined that... LOL

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Submitted by TrueNorth77 on Wed, 03/27/2019 - 2:12pm

Ha, mine brought me Nutrageous candy bars! After our recent issues, I laid the law down pretty hard and told him things change NOW. None of this half-assed, barely trying crap anymore. I told him it wouldn't kill him to think of nice things to do for me occasionally and then DO it. I do that for him and skids all the time. My love language is receiving gifts! I told him, hell, you could buy me my favorite candy bar (the elusive Nutrageous) and It would completely make my week. But let's be kind to each other and try to do nice things!

The next day 5 King-sized Nutrageous's were waiting for me on the counter when I got home from work. lol. I was thrilled!

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Submitted by Aniki-Moderator on Wed, 03/27/2019 - 2:45pm

Yay!

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Submitted by hereiam on Wed, 03/27/2019 - 12:08pm

I knew it was about SD22.

I can't believe she just showed up at your house like that.

I love your DH's potty mouth!

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Submitted by Aniki-Moderator on Wed, 03/27/2019 - 12:14pm

Of course it's about SD22! DH refuses to pay for ANYTHING for SD22 - who moved out of the 'Ho House on Feb 1 and is now going back to school in the Fall. And since CS ended almost 2 years ago, the only way 'Ho can try to use DH as an ATM is through the skids. Isn't it funny how 'Ho never "needed" to talk to me in 9 years until SD22 "needed" money?

Do you think it's wrong of me to get turned on when he's like that? Dirol

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Submitted by Cover1W on Wed, 03/27/2019 - 12:26pm

oh dear lord, heart palpitations! LOL.

I see little glimmers of this here and there with DH...the SD15 travel story continues as things came to a head last night (and ruined OUR romantic plans - it's like icewater thrown over us) and I think he's just done with it/her/BM at this point.  He's either going to call or email BM tonight...

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Submitted by Aniki-Moderator on Wed, 03/27/2019 - 12:40pm

Cover, that text and the repeated knocking was definitely some proverbial ice water, but I got over it quickly when DH went into action.

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Submitted by tog redux on Wed, 03/27/2019 - 12:52pm

Well, we see where SD22 gets her tactics from.  What does she think you are going to do to help?

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Submitted by Aniki-Moderator on Wed, 03/27/2019 - 1:16pm

I guess because I'm his wife and 'Ho ASSumes that I can/will tell DH what to do with his money.

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Submitted by shamds on Thu, 03/28/2019 - 2:26am

Will convince her husband to pay child support to adult kids from exwife? Is she stupid??

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Submitted by Aniki-Moderator on Thu, 03/28/2019 - 10:13am

Yes, hon, 'Ho IS stupid. Don't get me wrong - she's quite conniving and manipulative. But when Smarts were being handed out, she was probably behind the building giving someone "service"...

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Submitted by shamds on Wed, 03/27/2019 - 12:54pm

He’d gone through all that effort for an intimate night and get you both in the mood and exwife decides she can just come unannounced to talk to you about their kid?? Talk about ruining the mood so no wonder your husband was pissed off...

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Submitted by advice.only2 on Wed, 03/27/2019 - 2:15pm

What a man what a man what a mighty good man!!! To throw it back to some Salt and Peppa! Your DH is pure gold Aniki.

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Submitted by TrueNorth77 on Wed, 03/27/2019 - 2:11pm

What a psycho!! Who just shows up at someone's house and then continues knocking?! I was torn between your DH ignoring the whore or giving her hell, and I must say the giving hell seems to be the winning response.

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Submitted by Aniki-Moderator on Wed, 03/27/2019 - 2:49pm

Everyone knows that - 97% of the time - if my car is there that I'm home. 'Ho used to stalk the house all the bloody time - willing to bet she still does on occasion. And this definitely shows that SD22 is a mini 'Ho with the same annoying persistence!

 

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Submitted by Monkeysee on Wed, 03/27/2019 - 2:21pm

Officially president of your DH’s fan club!! Crushing so hard Aniki, he just keeps getting better! Wink

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Submitted by Aniki-Moderator on Wed, 03/27/2019 - 2:50pm

Monkey, he foolishly thinks he's gotten more and more UNattractive as he ages. Wrong! He's a fine wine, IMO.

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Submitted by Cooooookies on Thu, 03/28/2019 - 5:25am

LMAO you just couldn't even make this stuff up!!  She has impeccable timing...like last time when she saw your bare bum in a frilly apron.  Seriously, though, your DH is just delicious!

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Submitted by Aniki-Moderator on Thu, 03/28/2019 - 10:16am

Oh, yes. And DH had the biscuit basket covering his junk. Bahahahahahahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!
At least he was wearing shorts this time!

I admit that I am positively gaga over him. Yahoo

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Submitted by thinkthrice on Thu, 03/28/2019 - 9:48am

don't "get it" like your DH does!!!!   Has he thought about teaching a class or doing a pod cast that could be monetized? 

Getting Back Your Spine for Divorced Men 101

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Submitted by Aniki-Moderator on Thu, 03/28/2019 - 10:41am

Thrice, I believe that he has simply reached his saturation point with all of the BS. He's older, crotchety-er, and has lost his tolerance for it. I'm certain he would help SD out with something, shall we say, PRACTICAL?? Her car on the fritz or the pilot light on the furnace needs replacing. But he's done being the Cash Bull for Bull Shite.