I hosted Christmas Dinner for Dh's family, I had 14 ppl here. Most years I host and it goes well. My bio son and me worked all day trying to make sure everything was perfect. The 26-pound turkey turned out great. 

Skid was in and out of the house all day. Of course, never offered to help, didn't even clean his room or his bathroom like he is supposed to. DH attended to that. Skid was pouty all day, I even asked DH what is up with him, DH said he did not notice. I just ignored it and continued working with my son in the kitchen.

Skid returned later with his GF in tow. At least she is always pleasant to DH and I. I sometimes do not know why she is with skid. They went down to the basement to skid’s room to watch Netflix as usual.

Company starts arriving. DH requested that skid and GF come up to be social. Skid said they would in a minute. DH checks on them 20 minutes later and they are both in the basement bathroom together. He texts skid and told him to come up and eat. DH got a reply back that the GF wasn’t feeling good.

Skid and GF made their way upstairs to eat eventually. The dinning room table was full and they were going to eat at the kitchen island. GF was the only one sitting at the island when I asked her if she needed anything? Maybe a cup of tea?  Skid24 rudely says to me that “ You don’t have to f##king announce it to everyone that she doesn’t feel well”. To which I snapped back, I didn’t announce it to everyone but you seem to be doing a great job at that.” I left out the “you f##king prick” at the end of it.

Well he is even in a worse mood because I was not going to kiss his ass after him laying into me.

I left with a glass of wine to the garage I proceeded to have a cigarette because I was so pissed off. DH came out a minute later because for me to be smoking in the middle of Xmas dinner he knew I was pissed. He heard everything and begged me not to cause a scene. Which I told him I would not because of his other family like his mom, but I let him know that I am pissed right off and need to cool down before I could even put my game face on.

Came in went upstairs and did the check in for my son’s flight for tomorrow night. At least it was not a formal sit-down dinner so my absence was not noticed for the 10 minutes I was gone.

As I was coming down stairs, skid was at the front down which is open to the 2nd storey where I was saying to DH “Well hope you have a very Merry Christmas with you new f@cking family.  Will pack up my shit tomorrow and be gone. Hope you enjoy your wife.” Thank goodness no one else was a witness to that. Part of me wouldn’t care however my very sweet 87 yo MIL would be so upset, so I am glad that she did not hear anything.

So yes, my skid24 ruined Christmas.

I barely ate because I was too pissed off and I just wanted everyone to go so I can talk to DH and figure out WTF is going on.

DH has no idea of what it up skid’s ass. However, I told him I was pissed off. Bad move because apparently, I am not allow to have feeling in a situation like this. I stopped talking to DH cleaned up with kitchen myself and went on I hosted Christmas Dinner for Dh's family, I had 14 ppl here. Most years I host and it goes well. My bio son and me worked all day trying to make sure everything was perfect. The 26 pound turkey turned out great. 

Skid was in and out of the house all day. Of course never offered to help, didn't even clean his room or his bathroom like he is suppose to. DH attended to that. Skid was pouty all day, I even asked DH what is up with him, DH said he did not notice. my computer and ignored DH.

Later DH wanted to talk to me. I said we can’t talk. You can not be a husband in this situation and I need some to talk and vent to but when I tried earlier you got defensive and shut me down. Apparently, I am not allowed to pissed off according to you. Then he says it is the way I approached it earlier, I said “ I am really pissed off”  Which I told him that was me holding back because I wanted to say that “ I am really f@cking pissed off at you asshat of a kid and I never want him back in my house” And I continue to refuse to talk to DH about this until he can be a husband. See how holding back is.

DH walked away saying what a Merry effing Christmas it is. I just went to the main floor on my computer and started typing.

DH came down all sucky to me and asking me to go to bed. I told him once I am done typing I will, I left out the part that I am re-keying the front door lock before I go up to bed.

I hate skid!!!!