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Just wanting for it.
Employment in our Province can be a challenge because we are in a recession and even worse now like everywhere else globally. Since covid-19 people are very lucky to be still working. Both areas that DH and I are employed in are considered essential services so both of us are working and fully employed.
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DH is pouty because I wont gush over skid25
DH has come a long way with steps but sometimes he takes steps backwards.
Skid25 is a guitarist and lead singer in a band him and his friends started. They write their own music, according to skid he writes all the music. Hr never gives much or any credit to his band mates for anything. Typical NPD behavior.
This week (on Friday) they released their first single and video. A song that I have heard them play 100s of times, it was changed a little , probably under the guidence of the music producer.
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We should go on trip
That's the text that skid25 sent to DH.
Skid25 - We should go on a trip.
DH - where to?
Skid25 - London
DH - That would be cool, but very expensive.
Skid25 - Or instead we can go to Nashville, Los Angeles, New York
Skid25- not all of those but one of those.
At that point DH changed the subject. They just start to speak again after Skid25 called DH the worse things ever and disowned as a father. Even gave DH "throwing money at him" over the years. Now Skid25 is trying to get a vacation out of DH. Well it's not happening.
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Looks life we will have separate Christmas celebrations
Tonight I spoke with my DH about Christmas plans. Since 2011 we have always spent Christmas with his family and with us usually hosting. We are not hosting it this year And after last years disaster with adult skid there would be no way I would be hosting unless skid was not attending. Last year I told DH that I did not want to spend Christmas with skid again.
Like nothing ever happened
DH went to have dinner with skid24 last night they havent really talked since skid's melt down back in April. The same melt down where skid hurled insults at DH and texting him telling him he is a POS etc (it's all on previous blog).
Dh came home and said they had a nice visit. I asked if skid apologized or spoke about that day. Dh said no, we just had a nice visit.
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Here we go again
Well its been a great run of almost 5 months with out skid24 and any if his drama.
From one of my previous blogs, skid packed his stuff and moved out in a huff, said unforgivable things to DH in the process and said he never wants to speak to him again.
DH was very mad and hurt. He wasn't going to beg for a relationship with skid. Even this weekend skid texted and said " How are you doing" . DH replied a generic fine and how are you. His kid didn't even reply for days until he wanted some advice. DH was feeling crushed.
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Well that’s how you raised him
Been pretty peaceful since skid24 exclude himself from our lives. There is the odd text to DH. Some stupid things that someone his age should know. Like today he needed to ask DH can my boss make me work 7 days in a row? Or over time rules in our Province, he could google that. But whatever.
Skid has left about 8 boxes in a storage unit that DH’s work has. He collected all his other stuff when he got possession of his new rental at the end of June. He is not sure if he wants it, it’s mostly kitchen stuff and his GF who he lives with has kitchen stuff.
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End to free Netflix for skid
At this point I hate skid24, after his big melt down when he left, the way he treats DH (and me) and he is such an NPD user. When he left he said he wanted nothing and nothing to do with DH.
However he still uses the free jam space for his band, gym membership and our Netflix account. DH would never think of turning off the taps on skid even after all that happened.
https://www.steptalk.org/blog/grace8205/so-very-tired-it-all-253510
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Father’s Day vent
It was also 2 months ago when skid24 totally lost it and was delusional. To get the background just read my previous blog.
Skid always annoys me on Father’s Day, how he does nothing for his dad and expects DH to take him and whoever is girlfriend is out to eat and whatever activities such as the driving range. Never does anything for his dad.
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No word from Skid still.
We still have not heard anything from skid24 since he had his mega dellulisional melt down a month a go.
Dh says he doesn't know where he is staying. Skid's gf works with DH and DH told me that he spoke to her and said this is work and we will not talk about personal matters. Or at least that's what he told me.
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