OMG. That’s seriously unhealthy for SD to consume that much protein. 

I agree. Hide the food. 

We have a lock on our bed room door and hide food of all types from SD 20, she and her pot head friends would wipe us out if we didn't.

Is she overweight or she might have bulimia

Ugh, yep, definitely skid mentality....gorging all the food and not worrying about the fact that the other permanent residents of the house use that food to eat for an entire week!  I also have a problem with my SD eating anything and everything she possibly can while visiting.  Getting huge portions of food before everyone else has gotten any.  It is really infuriating.  My SO is a major part of the problem also b/c he doesn't see a problem with it and actually encourages her to eat more (at least that is how it seems).  I tried to solve the problem by waiting until after she leaves to go to the grocery and get snacks for the family and only having "healthy" snacks when she is there.  SO just continues to feed her bad habit though.  We had her this past weekend so of course SO had to let her eat whatever her little heart desired and then went and bought a dozen donuts Sunday morning b/c I guess having cereal, eggs, toast, waffles, breakfast burritos and breakfast sandwhiches readily available weren't enough options for his little precious!  

I'll be honest it drives me crazy but I realized that as long as SO and BM cater to her and are okay with her crap eating there is nothing I can do.  I just sit back in disgust as I watch her consume her 3rd donut in one sitting and think "well that saves me the temptation of eating more than I need to!".  I also feel like SD gorges on all the food as a way to show she is more special and can eat whatever she wants b/c I can actually tell my kids "that is enough" or "eating that much of xxx isn't good for you" but not precious little snowflake!  

1.  Any place where instruments of work are stored

2.  In with cleaning supplies

3.  In with deodorant, soap, floss

4.  Fruit/Veg Bin

I think Im in LaLaLand today*crazy*  am I this different from everyone?  23 Years a STEPMOM and I never limited the food. Just bought more food if we were out.  If someone asked/asks me if they can have this or that, I say "Please, Help Yourself!- Always free food and drink, If your hungry at this house its your own fault!"  Dinner for 8 kids/plus me and DH was usually a 8X13 casserole with the meat and veggies mixed in, like a lasagna or enchaladas or manicotti or BBQ ribs and Desert in an 8X 13 casserole dish had the fruit mixed in, cakes, cobblers, crisps, whatever we had, leftovers in the fridge were made into soups or stews or casseroles, chilis.  If they did not like the dinner I made, they could always make a PB& J or a bowl of cereal or microwave popcorn or an apple or banana, or whatever they want.      When the skids come over for dinner, I pack up all the leftovers and send them with so SS and DIL can take to work and eat for lunch or put in kids lunchboxes.  The skids/kids are fit and trim.  If something is on sale, I buy the maximum allowed on sale items and use coupons.  When meat is on sale, I buy the family pack and some freezer bags, cut it inhalf with sissors and put in freezer bags in freezer.  I take out an unmarked freezer meat and dont usuallyknow what it is until I defrost it.  The cooked meat pan usually has juices and cooked peices left in it after the dinner so I add warm water and scrape all the flavor bits, put into jar in the refrideg and it is used to flavor mashed potatos, or rice or caseroles or whatever.  The ladies in the neighborhood leave tomatos or potatos or squash from their gardens on my porch and I open my door and add those foods to the dinner too.  I guess I view food differently, everyone needs food.

It sounds like we have the same stepdaughter. Mine ate a whole loaf of white bread the other week in a day and a half and lied and lied about it. I confronted her HARD BALL style about it, still said she ‘didn’t realise she had eaten that much’. What so you have amnesia? Total bs. Disgusts me just to think about and look at her. As you have reminded your DH, I reminded mine about who has a pattern for stealing food and lying about it? The phantom that lives in our house?! No, it is SD16.

So I guess we are just going to bash on this horrible, fat, lying, stealing SD and ignore the fact that she likely has an eating disorder and is probably depressed or anxious enough to be binge eating her feelings?

Entire birthday cake, entire box of pop tarts, 12 energy balls when most people cant eat more than 2 after eating breakfast, lunch dinner and snacks, a history of sneaking food. Living in a house where she is morbidly obese and everyone else plays sports.

Nah...You guys are right. she sucks and her sneaking food just shows how gluttonous and selfish and deceitful she is and completely glosses over the fact that a mentally healthy person would not compulsively eat an entire birthday cake. I'm sure monitoring and documenting her food intake with cameras and proving what a liar and food thief she is will help a lot! Ok, continue your thread.

Please take this girl to a doctor and a therapist ASAP.

was moving in with us full time. She is still a little chunky but much, much slimmer than when she was obese living with BM. There was very little we could do when she lived most of the time with BM. We approached BM who said she ‘promoted healthy eating’ when she herself is morbidly obese. How could she even say that with a straight face?!

We are anticipating SD to balloon when she moves back to BMs in a few months and you know what? I don’t care as I’ve tried. If SD wants to be hideous and eat crap all day long then it is up to her. We have spoken to her ad nauseum about healthy eating, if she chooses to be a fat unit like her mother then that is on her.

My OSS will eat until he literally pukes. He’s almost 14 and I have to make his plate so that he doesn’t take a giant portion and leave the 5 other people with a little bit. He’s about 240 pounds and plays baseball (but he is NOT athletic). DH is a big guy (350ish) and BWhore is 250ish, so they say he gets the ‘chunky from them.’ Tried to tell DH that obesity isn’t genetic. I’m to the point where he can eat himself right out of baseball. I used to lock our fridge and pantry to keep him from sneaking, but I hardly buy unhealthy shit anymore, so he’s running out of junk to eat. 

Sounds like SD12. Ha! My boys here the majority of the time. They don't over snack nor do we have issues with them eating meals, etc. So they have their own snack stash. They are 13 and almost 17. SD is notorious for sneaking snacks into her room. We will find wrappers stashed everywhere. So, we buy only healthy snacks with occasional sugar goodies. Cheeses, fruits, crackers, popcorn, veggies. You wanna eat constantly? You ain't going to eat brownies!

SD10 has the worst eating habits. She gorges herself on food. DH will find an entire ice cream tub, roll of cookie dough, bags of candy, etc. up in her room. It's disgusting. She always sneaks it. If we see her, we tell her no food upstairs, or put that back and grab something healthy. But she's a little theif. She's tall for her age I think? 5 foot, but at the doctor they took her BMI and she fell in the "overweight" category for being 106 pounds already.