but there seems to be hope. FDH talked to SS7's Therapist last night and what she had to say was interesting.

Here is what went down last Friday. Now the therapist warned us that the first week of school would be stressful for SS7 and there could be some issues. Well this was not what we expected. He come into my bedroom where I was on my computer and told me that he was hot. It's fall and I had all the windows and falls on so I thought the house was pretty cool. I asked him what else he wanted me to do and he started crying. I told him that he was over tired and if he didn't feel well then he needed to go lay down. He asked for an ice pack and I said no, he wasn't sick it was ll in his head (like the therapist told us to do) Well he lays down for 2 minutes and get up, says he is fine and I tell him no lay back down for 10 minutes. he gets up again to see if 10 mins are up so I say no and now it starts over. When FDH got home some time later SS7 goes up to him and tell him that same thing - he is hot. FDH tells him that same thing I did, the house is not hot and he add that SS7 should just go take it easy. SS7 asks for ice water to cool himself down so he slams 2 cups and 20 minutes later walks into the hallway and throws up. FDH was in the bathroom so I tell SS7 to get in the kitchen, by the sink or trash can. He starts crying and asks if he is in trouble. I told him no but get on the tile floor, it's that same thing I do with the cats. FDH comes out we clean SS7 up and put him in bed. he cries again that it came out his nose, we tell him that happens some times. He begs to have him temperature taken but we tell him he has to wait a little while because he drank the cold water. We finally take it - no temp. We made him stay in bed the rest of the night, got him up once to feed him toast and he slammed another cup of water - FDH told him not to slam it and he said that it helps cool him down. He was in bed by 7. The next day it was like it never happened. He ate well and wasn't any whiner than usual.

He also started doing that weird thing that he does again last week so Sunday after we returned them to BM FDH and I sat down and documented the whole week and included videos of him doing that weird thing he does and I gave it to the therapist Monday.

Therapist called last night and talked to FDH. She said that it sounds like a panic attack happened Friday, he got so worked up he made himself sick. She was worried because it sounded like SS7 didn't use any of the 'tools' she had taught him in therapy. She added that BM did bring him last time and didn't make a followup like they had talked about, in fact BM kind of made it sound like she wouldn't see him again. FDH was honest with Therapist, told her that he would talk to BM and then he would call her to make an appointment in a few weeks because he didn't trust BM to do it.

The Therapist took a real interest in the videos. We had talked to her about it but it's hard to discernible, seeing it is a whole other story. FDH added that BM claims that he doesn't do it at her house and when he described it to her BM called it 'his happy feet'. But The Therapist noted that same thing we did, if you look at his face when he does it, he doesn't look so happy. Therapist asked if she could show the videos to the Psychologist and FDH said yes. FDH also told her that we showed the videos to SS7 pediatrician last year and he wanted to test him for Autism (which is what SS5 has) But BM refused to have him tested.

We are going to wait (and document) until October then try to get SS7in to see Therapist again.

This is just getting to be too much for me to handle, it's like walking on egg shells when he is here, you don't know what is going o set him off.