And I sort of wonder how long it will be before the Therapist takes note of BM's lack of interst/ concern in SS7's Behavoral Therapy. So far BM has gone to one parent meeting and stated only a few concerns. FDH (and I) have many worries, to the point where the Therapist asked us why we seem to have more issues than BM. So we are taking detailed notes this week of Ss7 and what we see/ do. So far it's 4 typed pages! We are going to give it to Therapist so she can explain to us why we are having so many issues/concerns.

FDH has called and talked to the Therapist on the phone, BM has not. I scheduled the next appt. and BM did not care even though it's her week, she just said whatever works for me. She has arranged for me to take him. The therapist wants to see ALL of us at some point but I would be shocked if BM goes again.

I think the Therapist already knows that BM lied to her about what bed time is like at her house. And she told both parents that when it comes to kids she takes this very serious and will tell them when she doesn't agree with something. so how long before she lays into BM?

Lastly I asked FDH if we should say something to Therapist about our plans to try for a baby and move skids into the same room. But I don't really want to talk about the stuff in front of BM. I don't want her to use our concerns about Ss7 and the baby as fuel to PAS.