What does your BM look like???
I know this has been discussed many times before. But I am struggling with this issue. I was looking through old pictures last night. SD has a couple of albums of her baby pics and there are a few of BM from years ago. I just can't get over how unattractive she is. I know that makes me shallow but my goodness. SO is a good looking guy who is in great shape. BM is about 5 ft tall and maybe weighs 100 lbs soaking wet. She has this mass of frizzy hair and she resembles a Qtip. In the old pics I have seen she is always fixed up, hair done, make up on,etc. But she has the weirdest features she is really tiny but she has a huge mouth and eyes. I have only seen her once in person and it was so quick I really didn't get a good look at her. But I was shocked at how small she was.
Now I guess it was on my mind because she has been texting and calling SO nonstop begging for his forgiveness for everything so she can move on with her life. By everything she means all the affairs she had when they were married. Then she has to throw me in to it. Saying I know Newstep is jealous of me and won't allow you to come speak to me face to face but I need to see you and hear in your voice that you forgive me. WTF???? I am not jealous of her one bit. Nothing to be jealous of. I wonder would it be worse if she was really attractive?? Would it make me insecure and jealous??
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Ours looked like an anorexic
Ours looked like an anorexic crack head. She has no shape no curves no ass no blobs. She wears her hair in this messy look that is What she thinks is curly but in reality it just looks like she don't own a brush. This is her look for a few years now smh. She spendsba ton on clothes expensive clothes nice Clothes but oks like a 10 yo boy in them. My 11yo old has more curves. It's nice to be thin and fit but not sickly lookin.
Seriously????
:jawdrop: Seriously????
ROFLMAO
ROFLMAO
Hmmm, how can I say this
Hmmm, how can I say this nicely...........Imagine the Michelin Man with Chuckie the murderous dolls face.
Hmmm...Well, she is a cross
Hmmm...Well, she is a cross betwenn Joe Camel. Seriously, if I could post a side by side pic, you'd all agree. A puffer fish, cause her cheeks look like she has 2 golfballs stuck on the inside of her face. Her teeth are hideous and she has REALLY big brown gums. Eewww, of couse, DH states that she didn't look like that before. But I have a hard time buying that. There is no way THAT could ever have looked decent.
An overstuffed bag of trash
An overstuffed bag of trash with frizzy, nasty, uncombed hair. Oh, and she also smells like a bag of trash!
LOL we all have the same
LOL we all have the same trolls to deal with. It just blows my mind that SO was ever with someone so hideous but she was and still is a master manipulator. She can't control SO anymore and that is why she is so desperate to get her control back.
My Bm is plain she was huge
My Bm is plain she was huge but lost a lot of weight which is annoying lol but when I saw her she is thin but looks 9 months pregnant so she has this huge gut for some reason. Brown hair she cuts super short with no style, brown eyes thin lips slight mustache. I am not the most confidant person in the world but I know I am leaps and bounds prettier and have a better personality than her.
Well, I can't help but think
Well, I can't help but think there's the one big, main reason their behavior is so hateful and they give you such a hard time. If they aren't happy with themselves and they aren't taking care of their appearance... they're going to take it out on you.
Same thing here, BM was pretty when she was younger and now DH is embarrassed for anybody to know he was with her. Not just because of her physical appearance but just as much or more because of her behavior.
ss16 has even complained about the fact that I go get my nails and hair done and buy nice clothes. The nicer I am to ss16 and the more I take care of my own appearance, the more ss16 resents me. DH says it is nothing I do, it is because ss16 is so frustrated with his own mother's lack of self care and ss16 has said on more than one occasion that he's embarrassed of her appearance and her behavior. It's sad actually.
Keep taking care of yourself physically and also emotionally. That gets hard sometimes with all the strain of things. It's very, very difficult to be married to somebody with skids who resent you and a BM who makes as much trouble as she can.
BM although I haven't seen
BM although I haven't seen her face to face ever is HUGE DH says he likes curves which would be me! I have no huge gut or double chin so I said one day I didn't know being fat meant curvy? She has freckles a huge forehead and a nose too small for her face. Fried hair and huge lips. Me? Im small with curve, dark natural hair and great skin! SD tells me all the time her mom is fat. That's all she knows of her mother by the way. It's easy to be mean about her because she says she looks better than me? Haha
BM was very pretty when her
BM was very pretty when her and DH got together. Now she is 5'6" and weighs like 350lbs. She smokes like 2 packs a day and her diet is atrocious. She chopped all her hair off and has very wide blonde streaks in her hair which looks weird because she has this huge body and a small head. Also, on Halloween a few years ago I saw her in her costume which was skin tight and I thought "she looks like oatmeal stuffed into a rubber glove." She is now referred to as "sea donkey"
She told DH right after the divorce she colored and cut her hair (DH likes long shiny hair) to make sure she removed all of the things about her that he found physically attractive...you succeeded BM...He finds you revolting...
She looks ok if you drink 2
She looks ok if you drink 2 bottles of wine, close one eye and squint through the other one. And if you don't like wine, her ass makes a nice shelf for a six pack.
I posted BM's mugshot on here
I posted BM's mugshot on here once before, she looks like the "faces of meth" poster girl.
Ugly on the inside and the outside.
It makes he laugh that Miss Snitchy looks just like her. (Hubby is not her bio-dad)
Porky pig.
Porky pig.
OMG some of these are
OMG some of these are funny!
Our BM is a dyed blonde with feathered bangs and long hair. She wears a pink or white sweatshirt or plain top with skinny jeans that she squeezes her fat ass into with white sneakers. She tries to look much younger than she is and she really believes she does.
What do I see?
A pitiful 45 year old woman who got knocked up on purpose with baby daddy #2 to secure herself with more income. She hunts for men and uses them for what she can get out of them. She wears the same clothes that she thinks makes her look younger when in actuality, she appears to be a woman who fears getting older, is insecure with herself and continually looks for opportunities for her survival. How sad to live life that way.
I am LOLing. The Wife in
I am LOLing.
The Wife in Law AKA D.B. (Dumb Bitch) is not "Bad" looking. She is OK physically. She is heavy set but so am I. She is pear shaped with a big butt (I am big top and bottom) and she wears super tight jeans. She is always wearing the same thing just about.. A T=shirt with a cami underneath I guess going for the "layered" look year round and tight jeans. She has long straight brown hair. My boyfriend said she used to weigh more but did a crash diet and of course the drugs and lost some weight but now she drinks (which she never did their 13yrs of marriage) and is getting big again.
She is in her late 30s and hangs out with 18-21 year olds. Her little brother's friends mostly. She has a very nasty temper and is just nasty attitude in general. My boyfriend has a mildly mentally retarded sister and his entire marriage DB refused to talk to her or be around her. I love his sister and we get along great! She is in her 20s but acts about 15. She is not an ogre!
DB thinks her shit doesn't stink either... My boyfriend and I have access to each others emails/cell phones/documents and the emails/texts she sends are insane...and the words she makes up/or bad spelling make it comical.