Rude and Retarded
BM txt FDH at 5:08 this morning! It woke us both up. I guess he needs to start putting his phone on silent at night. Because she wanted to tell him that she was going to cancel ss4's doc appt. because it snowed last night. FDh txt her back and told her that it was tomorrow, so then she calls.
FDH greeted her still half asleep and she was like "oh are you sleeping?" He answer "No your txt wake me up". Silence "Oh I thought you had to be to work early" - which some times he does when it snows but he got home lat last night so they didn't call him in early.
Any way she goes on to say that it's just her and ss4 going tomorrow and she doesn't want to chase it. FDH - who drive trucks- told her that the area she is headed for didn't even get snow, they got rain. She starts freaking out about ice, but the truck will be out to day salting so there should be any ice by tomorrow and the roads here should be ok by then. She just needs to leave early and drive slow.
I swear she is such a drama queen, plus the place ss4 has the appt. is really hard to get in to, if she reschedules it could take months to get another appt. I think she is just trying to get out of it because FDH can't go and she doesn't want to go alone and look bad. FDH said she will call him again at noon - but more than likely she will reschedule it with out with out his approval.
After she txt the first time I told him to txt her back that we were a sleep - he said no so I was going to flipping txt her - I was pissed.
$5 bucks says she cancels before she calls FDH back again later.
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BM ALERT!!! First of all
BM ALERT!!!
First of all Moms need to know their place plain and symbol,it seems that they want to force EX's to be more involved then they need to be, your ex does not need to help you pick out an outfit, or you do not need to call your ex to discipline your child cause he gave you attitude. HELLO YOU ARE THE MOM!!! Just because you mixed up or you are a scatter brain does not mean you are going to wake ME and MY HUSBAND up. Unless there is death your stupidity should not inconveniance me. You are a single mom if you wanted to go 50% everyday like couples who have kids together do then you should have done more to save your marriage/relationship! Your ex can't do nothing for you because he doesn't live with you. He can only handle the kids when he as them!!!
And you don't think there was
And you don't think there was a more appropriate way than at 5:08 in the morning to let him know? Really? This strikes you as completely normal and rational, that she did it this way? Ok, then.
Yeah FDH had already told BM
Yeah FDH had already told BM that he couldn't go. If she really felt the need to cancel it - which she did any way - then she just should have done it and txt'ed FDH later in the day.
I swear she can't do anything with the sKids with out calling FDH to see if she should or not. But even when he says no - she does what she wants any way. But she HAS to call first and see.
SM's, and anyone with any
SM's, and anyone with any sense, are going to bitch about getting a text at 5:08 a.m., period.
Only an idiot would text that early, and only an idiot would think it was ok.
I found it rude because the
I found it rude because the Appt. wasn't until tomorrow - if it is true or not BM implied that she knew it wasn't today but that could have been to cover her stupidity. so the txt/call could have waited until a better time like after 8 or 9 am when NORMAL people are expected to be awake!
Lucky for us BM doesn't know
Lucky for us BM doesn't know what 5:00am looks like.
I would have been annoyed with her for that alone. It does seem a bit dramatic that she is worried a snow from 48 hours ago. If she is truly incapable of driving in that kind of weather, maybe she should not be left responsible for a child during the winter months. Ok, maybe now I am being a drama queen, but come on... I live in Southern California and I still function when it snows (once every 5 years). I swear one year I was the ONLY ONE in my office because it had snowed the night before. People are very strange. In fact, it snowed here on Monday night, first time in 2 years and GUESS WHAT?!?!? My girls were playing their softball game in it. It's JUST SNOW PEOPLE!
We live in the North were it
We live in the North were it snows regularly, so our street crews are pretty good about clearing everything up in a short amount of time and as FDH pointed out to her it was/hadn't even snowed where she was heading. Once she got out of our city she should have hit nice roads, of course it's her choice to call and change the appt, it's her week and FDH had already said that he couldn't make it because of work. i fully expect her to change it, but i don't think it has everything to do with the roads. She just doesn't want to go alone and this is her logic - also if you follow my posts FDH was planning to go until work issues came up but he was refusing to ride with BM alone in a car for an hour (2 if you count both ways).
BM is retarded with snow - this time last year she txt ME! flipping out when we got a few inches. She demanded that FDH come get me from work and that I stay home the following day because it was too dangerous out. I ignored her and made it home fine.
You need to nip this in the
You need to nip this in the butt. Seriously she is way out of line. Why was she calling him if she decided to cancel, I don't even see why that is important or how it relates to your husband. And two parents do not need to take a child to an appointment. Me and DH are together we do not take kids to appt together. Jeez she has classic can't let go syndrome, and I want to Force Coparenting Even though we are not together disease!!!
I am going to get an ulcer
I am going to get an ulcer for you SM posts, I can't believe you allow this to go on. I would freak on my husband if he took an appointment because she was busy. I would tell her she needs to reschedule! I feel bad for Bio Dads when they want to be involved the BM walk all over them. I hope he left when she showed up.
SMH it's disgusting really.
SMH it's disgusting really. Imagine how kids feel. Kids know when they are being played by pawns. LOL just thinking about the conversation that went on when she got home and had her Husband waiting there.
Maybe I am being petty but
Maybe I am being petty but the other thing the got me was FDH wasn't even going to tell her that she woke us up. I reminded him that if she is being rude you have to tell her because she doesn't get it. I told him that now that we are getting married I am going to start tell her if he doesn't, just a "hey that's not appropriate" "You shouldn't do that" "It's offensive"
That may be what she doesn't talk to me any more.
it was even more awkward
it was even more awkward because... (this may be TMI)
When we don't have the sKids I sometimes sleep in the nude. And we didn't have the sKids.
When she txt'ed it woke me up so when she called I was already awake and pissed. We were still in bed and I resisted the urge to start whispering sweet nothings into FDH's ear so BM could hear
Just to f with her and as pay back for calling for freakin' early.
I agree this is very rude!
I agree this is very rude! Our BM has done this on numerous occasions, and it's really uncalled for because SD is now 20!! Our BM has texted as early as 4 am over LIFE INSURANCE, and nothing that cannot wait until the sun is shining! DH isn't bothered by it and says she does it because that's when SHE gets up for work, and doesn't seem to care that it bothers me. So I think in my case both BM and DH need lessons on manners!
Unless it's an emergency, or relevant to something so early in the morning that warrants such an early text, NOBODY should text or call anyone that early!
*end rant*
Do you also get the late
Do you also get the late night txt's? OMG i freaking hate those. BM txt'ed us one night at like 10 wanting to know where something was that was in ss6's school bag, which you would have think she would have check BEFORE txt'ing us so late.