So yesterday we had family lunch. We were going to a restaurant with some other family members. SS9 was with us this weekend so he went as well.

Where it goes all wrong:

Everyone is taking seats. BF is asking his son 'do you want to sit here?' pointing to a chair on his left. 'No, I want to sit here!' answers the kid, pointing to the chair between me and my BF. BF doesnt say anything, he seats the kid right there in between us, and letting me sit on the last chair at the end.

I didnt say a word during the whole lunch. I said fuck it. If you are not willing to accomodate me, i am not going to converse with you.

We came to FMIL house, and after everyone left I told him why he didnt sit with me. He said there was no place on the couch (he thought I was reffering that he didnt sit next to me the entire time at MIL house). I said no, I mean at the restaurant! Then some hell broke loose.

BF: The kid wanted to sit there! What am I supposed to do? Make him do something he doesnt want to do? I see him only every second weekend.
ME: Well, he could sit at the other side, he would still sit next to you, and you would be sitting next to me. You dont ask him where he wants to sit, you are supposed to just seat him.
BF: Well he never has me for himself, you do. I have a kid! Its obviously the problem for you that I have a kid!
ME: He could still have you, just like I would. His mother would do the same! Here we go again with this shit.

At this point BF dragged FMIL into the story, at which she said 'You should know who belongs where. Next time take care of it.'
She is great woman, she knows where kids belong, and how a family should look like. My bf is obvoiusly in denial.

Was I insane one like he thinks?