DH and I got into a heated argument Friday night b/c he's taking SS11 to watch his 'girlfriend' do some karate thing in a couple of weeks. I don't really care but DH is always making snide comments about how my BS14 is too young to have a 'girlfriend' until he's old enough to drive there isn't much point. I obviously think it's kind of a double standard that he's endorsing SS11 having one. He claims it's different b/c they don't do stuff together outside of school.

So, DH went Friday to p-up skids and came home with just SD. He said SS11 wanted to see a movie with some friends and the BM would bring him to our house after the movie. I HATE last minute plan changes and even though it didn't really effect me (I had plans of my own) I was annoyed by it and the fact that DH allowed it. So, I started asking who was going and made some comment about the GF probably going and DH says that only his 'guy friends' were going and I was just looking for a fight. So, I decide to invoke the NOT MY KID, NOT MY PROBLEM rule and let it go.

So, fast forward to tonight and we are taking the skids home. I ask SS11 about the movie and if BM stayed with him or one of the other parents and he tells us that there were no adults there, just the kids - these are 11 YEAR OLDS! Then he lets it slip that he was sitting next to his GF!! Imagine that....I was right! I couldn't help but smile as DH got PISSED. Seems the perfect SS didn't tell the complete truth to DH about who would and wouldn't be attending! I wonder how much of the truth BM knows? DH is pissed that she would drop him off without any adults being present on a Friday night at a busy theater at his age. He claims he's going to call her tomorrow and let her have it....I doubt that will happen but I'll repeat.....NOT MY KID, NOT MY PROBLEM! I was smiling all the way home!

I can just see a whole load of problems in my future with this kid! Don't get me wrong, he's not a 'bad' kid, he makes good grades, but he has a mouth on him and he's sneaky and not trustworthy in my opinion. He needs boundaries and parents that care enough to check up on him and what he's doing. Every time I walked into the living room this weekend and he was on e-mail with his GF he would quickly shut the browser window.....something's up but it's not my job to find out what.