DH came home from work Friday and after some arguing back and forth, he insisted on taking our 2yo to an out of state graduation party for his niece. I joined with our 3 mo. old.

We drove all night and arrived at 4 a.m. We were exhausted.

The next morning, DH got a call from SD saying that she needed somewhere to go until the party began (party started at 4 p.m.). None of DH's relatives were home, so she came to DH's parents' house, where we were staying.

She rang the bell and I answered. I peeked out the window to see who it was and SD saw me. She turned to whisper to her BF "that's her". I opened the door to let them in and said "hi". She mumbled "hi" back in an obviously unwilling way. Just a mumble.

So they came in. SD gave her grandparents a hug and said hello. She hugged and said hello to DH's sister and her son. DH and I and others were sitting around the dining room table. She continued to introduce her BF to everyone. As she was making her way around the table, she apparently forgot to introduce me. So after the introductions were done, SD's BF extended his hand to me and said "hi, I'm (BF)". I shook his hand and said "Hi, I'm Stepoff, nice to finally meet you". This didn't surprise me at all with the recent events that have happened between me and SD. But even if we hadn't exchanged words recently, I still would expect this from her. She's been like this since I met her. No surprise.

SD never said hello to her father, no hug, no acknowledgement at all. DH and I took BS3mos. with us to a store to pick up some misc. items. When we got into our car, DH immediately asked me if I had noticed that she hadn't acknowledged him at all. Of course I did. I then asked him if he noticed she had completely skipped me when introducing her BF. He noticed. DH knows that his daughter has been rude to me from the beginning, but I think it's bothering him now because she's doing it to him, too.

Anyway, after returning from the store to find that everyone was still there, we joined them in watching the soccer game. DH's dad was talking about LeBron James (basketball player) and the offers he's been getting from other teams. He mentioned the player's home, saying that it was "just a small place", obvious to everyone that it was a sarcastic remark. SD chimed in with "really? It's small?". LOL! DH's sister couldn't help but roll her eyes from across the room. I'm glad I'm not the only one who understands SD's lack of intelligence. Nobody said anything in response to her remark. I think we all got it.

Other little things happened similar to the above remark, but they're not even worth mentioning. It's just how SD is. However, while we were at the party, I overheard SD asking her father if she should still take her medication, because she had been drinking. DH knows nothing about her meds or their side effects and couldn't give her an answer. But after overhearing what med she is on, I googled it when we got home. It's pretty heavy medication - mind altering. There are some PRETTY SCARY side effects associated with it. So now I'm more scared then ever to have her around our kids. One thing's for sure, I do not want her to be left alone with the boys, even for a few minutes.

Our counseling session is still set for Thursday. I'm looking forward to it.