SHE CAVED!!!

OK, so we have had all this baby mamma drama... in previous blogs, i mentioned that BM called CPS on us, came at me in my car after a drop off, etc...
ok so this past sunday, DH went to drop off SS. He was gone for like 2 hrs, and I was like wtf? where is he? did she kill him?
He comes home, and he tells me that she caved. She poured herself out to him and told him she's afraid of us, and "what we'll do to her next!"
Haha i love it. It feels like a victory to me!
See she had called CPS on us on false allegations that we left SS with my MIL (who is a known drug user to CPS), which we never do. They investigated us for a few days, and closed the case. I in turn, out of anger, filed a case against her, and DIDNT EVEN LIE! I told them hes 4, and hes not potty trained, his clothes are always too small, and has dirty nails, long hair, etc. That she drink a lot... and I had pics to show them of her FB partying it up on wkends when she has custody... anyway....
She finally revealed to DH that she had to go through a CRAZY investigation. That they did a psych evaluation on her, drug testing, they photographed all of her house, and she had to drive an hr & a half to the CPS office to get a bunch of interviews done.
She also got called by a detective notifying her that I had gone with pressing assault charges on her, but that since they had insufficient evidence as of now, they weren't gonna file the charges, but he left her with a very serious warning that she needed to refrain from telling me anything because any fuck up on her part would result in them coming back at her and really filing charges.

anyway, she went on telling DH that she was afraid of what we would do to her next, and that she was afraid of what we would concoct next. DH told her that anything that we've done is a result of anything that shes done to us... so she needed to quit fucking with us for it to end.

She kept asking DH, "ok so are we ok? Do i have to worry about you?" kind of trying to call it a truce, but DH never said yes. just to keep her on her toes so she knows we will go further if she does too.

I LOVE IT! cause everything was done legally, and shes scared shitless!

she also asked us if we wanted to go back to having him half the time like we used to, but DH told her we would continue with court order visitation so she doesn't try to pull shit and try to take him back again, and also cause were not her glorified babysitters, and she really took it that way... and abused the fact that we wanted him around and couldn't say no.

She also went into him leaving her... that if he hadnt left, SS might have it all and be better... again... she will never get over it... and he told her that it was the best thing he had ever done, he has never neglected SS (which he never has, hes been there more than her), and he was so happy to have an actual home and family to come home to... and he said that he could see the hurt in her eyes.
I feel bad for her deep down, i know it must suck to see him make the life she wanted with him with someone else. but at the same time, its not our problem, and she needs to just see it now as it being about her son.

DH also spoke to her about SS. he is really behind. he doesnt talk at all yet, isnt potty trained, throws crazy tantrums, cant dress himself, etc. and he is about to be 4 very soon. He told her that my BD is at the same level as SS, and she is just 13 months.... which is true. It sucks to see them together, there is a 3 yr. difference, and they communicate the same, know the same things, and BD knows a little more that SS sometimes.
BM took it as a shocker. she didnt know how behind he was, and she even got offended. He goes to school in August, and he needs to be potty trained and Know SOME things, and DH told her he didnt want SS to be labeled retarded because of how he behind he is when we know its her fault that she doesnt teach him anything.

Anyway, thats beside the point i guess. We had been telling her for months to take him to the school district and get him tested to make sure hes prepared for when he starts school, and shes ACTUALLY gonna do it! Finally! I think shes doing it because she thinks shes gonna get more in trouble with CPS, but hey! whatever benefits SS!

I just hope shes finally starting to snap. It seems as if she might be scares straight. but who knows. this woman is bipolar.