One of the neighbor girls that SD13 is so mean to asked her to spend the night for a sleep over. FH said it was ok to the neighbor girl's mom but I was in the kitchen and SD comes to me asking if I can get her out of it... I told her that if she didn't want to spend the night then just tell the neighbor girl that you don't want to. She actually told me she wasn't that grown up and still a baby and couldn't do it...(even though SD can bully her all the time) and asked if I could go outside to the neighbor girl and basically clean her mess up for her. I refused because if someone doesn't want to be a friend to someone else then stand up for yourself and don't lead that person on. What pisses me off the most is that she got her dad's ear and told him a boldface lie about not feeling well and how she wanted to be in her own bed and wanted to go to bed early although she was at the neighbor girl's house having fun while FH and I were drinking beers outside with neighbor girl's parents. It just pissses me off to no end that FH can't first of all see that SD13 is a bully and second of all tell SD13 needs to stick up for her own choices!