Right when my fiancee would be getting out of work he gives me a call asking if we could handle getting his son tonight. My fiancee gets out of work at 7 btw.
So, I call our daughters babysitter and ask if itd be ok if her older brother can join her on Thursday as Im in class all day. She says no problem. Then he calls his brother who is staying with both kids now tomorrow while I have an interview.
Why is she dropping off on a Tuesday night? Our regular custodial time is from Thursday evening to Sun evening. She gave my fiancee money for childcare (he asked for it) no problem and said we can keep him until Sun. From what I gather her reasoning is that shes got "stuff to do for nursing school."
She's not enrolled in any nursing school or program. I dont understand whats keeping her from doing this stuff on fridays or another day she doesn't have SS. In fact, she just picked SS4 up Monday evening (which was a whole seperate trade off because he was "sick" Thursday and didnt get dropped off til Friday morning), so what prevented her from taking care of "stuff" then. Additionally, I go to college, I had to schedule meetings with admissions, financial aid- why couldn't we get even a days notice?
She even drove an hour to our place instead of waiting and dropping SS off at MILs tomorrow morning (where theyre gonna be anyways while Im at my interview). Oh and she dropped him off at close to 9 pm. If I had answered the door, I wouldnt taken a mental snapshot of her wardrobe choice considering this "stuff" shes gotta do tomorrow because it better not have involved fresh makeup and high heels.

Am I the only one who thinks perhaps shes gotten her massive refund check (she claimed SS for 3rd year in a row) and is partying?