Warning, this is a VERY LONG POST about this woman. You are getting all of the details, so that you can really understand what kind of person she is before you give me your opinions and/or advice. I thank you all in advance. This is such a hard thing to deal with, I need outside help. 

Here we go. 

So I am a new stay at home (step) mom to my fiance's 4 year old son. We are all very happy and work through issues pretty well together. I have no kids of my own yet, but hope to have some soon. And I just feel like I was meant to be a mother, so I am loving this mom life.