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I just can't shake it!!!

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Submitted by wonderwhy on Tue, 09/06/2011 - 10:08am

So last week, as I mentioned, DH was kissing SD20's ass the whole week. This is after the fact that she disrespected me, and lied saying that DH was going over BM's house, he went to meet with her to discuss it, she walked out on him, she left her food, but called DH to bring it to her, and sure enough he took it to her. Last week, while paying the our cell phone bill, I decided to look at the call history. He has been calling her like on average 5-6 times a day. I am like really? Then Friday, I get a text message from him saying that he is hanging out with her. I was fuming.

Best buds again?! Really??

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Submitted by wonderwhy on Wed, 08/31/2011 - 11:57pm

Well after blow up of SD20 cussing me out, DH and SD20 are best buds again like nothing happened, after she told DH that she didn't want anything to do with either one of us, DH is kissing her ass big time. WTF??? Really??? Pisses me off!! Like okay, you can disrespect my wife, and "I am cool"
They are like best buds again. Oh, she is not speaking to me (not that I want her to). GIVE ME A BREAK!!

Need opinions PLEASE!!!!

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Submitted by wonderwhy on Wed, 08/24/2011 - 11:52pm

Tying to make this short...over the weekend while trying to discuss issues that SD20 has with me, and getting no where (conversation was civil), she told me and DH that she wanted nothing to do with us, so I told DH we should leave, but before I left I told SD20 that she had issues and that she had some growing up to do.

Dang on it these baby mommas and their children!!

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Submitted by wonderwhy on Tue, 08/23/2011 - 9:59am

After Saturday's blow up with SD20 and her disrespecting me and cussing me out, and me not being able to hold my frustration in, and cussed back at her in return, BM calls DH and he doesn't answer, so she decides to send DH and me a text (SD20 gave her my cellphone number) telling DH how she can't believe that he let me disrespect SD20 like that by cussing at her and calling her a b*** (it wasn't until she called me one- felt I had to defend myself somehow some way).

Disrespected FOR THE LAST TIME!

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Submitted by wonderwhy on Sun, 08/21/2011 - 9:36am

So we have been dealing with a few issues with SD (20), so DH has been trying to fix the relationship (never gonna happen after last night). So SD sat down and told me the issues she has with me (none of which had anything to do with me, but with what her BD tells her). I told her I am always the bad guy for actions your dad makes and that's not fair. I have done NOTHING to this child! Nothing. So after me stating my peace, she says that she doesn't want anything to do with me or her BD. I said fine, lets go, it's obvious that she's done. What else is there to say or do here?

OMG!!! OMG!!! What to do?? Desperate for insight!!

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Submitted by wonderwhy on Fri, 08/19/2011 - 10:42pm

So, I have been having drama with the 20 SD for the past month, with money her wanting money from DH all time and when he says no, I get blamed and I am the bad person. So now this little girl pulls a stunt. My BS is a year older than SD and they talk and are quite close. SD moved closer to us to go to school (it is about 25 min from us). She used to live about an hour away. DH works where she used to live with her BM).