I'm new to all of this but hopefully I can get some advice. I have been a stepmom now for close to four years and my stepson hates me more than anything in the world. He has told him mom that I hardly feed him and when I do it's my children's leftovers. I have tried everything to try to connect with this kid and I dont know what to do anymore. There was a point where his behavior was affecting my marriage. He would tell his dad (my husband) lies so that we would agrue and he would smile and luv it. As time goes by and he gets older its just getting worse.