GRRRR

wicked-stepmother's picture

My step daughter no longer lives with us. We haven't seen her in months. She isn't spending time with us over the holidays. And yet, she still manages to get under my skin.

She forgot my youngest daughters birthday...her little sisters. She never phones to talk to them, or her dad. She has removed all of her father's famly from her FB account.

I loved having her live with us right up until the end...and then was really happy to see her out of our home. Life calmed down. But, I love her alot. Miss her like crazy. Worry about her and care for her from a distance. And still, am hurt by every little thing she does. My hurt turns to anger too.

Aggghhh

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vgill's picture

I just wish my SS's would go live with their BM, I almost envy your situation. Perhaps she needs a little time to adjust and realize where home really is and how good she had it there!!! A child is always looking for love and aproval, if your home is where she will find that(sounds like it is) she will come home perhaps with a new appriciation for her FAMILY!!

wicked-stepmother's picture

SD is 15 going on 30. It is hard to sit on the sidelines watching a child manipulate a situation to her advantage...even a bad situation....just because her bio parents can't seem to breath in the same air as each other. I long for days of a blended happy family.