So much has happened since I last posted in here...I would not even begin to know where to start. Sadly, the lies from DH have continued. It all revolves around his second ex wife and her kids. My two step-daughters got together with them last weekend to spend the night with her kids at their mother's house and to do Christmas. When I found out about it (through one of the kids FB posts), I asked DH what they were doing Friday night, and he said nothing. Then when I specifically asked him if they were getting together, he finially admitted it.

Still taking small steps...DH are still working on things and going to counceling, which seems to help. It's going to be a long road...the holidays will be rough this year since we have decided not to spend them together.

So, my DH and I are currently separated. We both made some huge mistakes. We are in counceling to work on our relationship. I feel like I have had a breath of fresh air. I was dying living as a nobody in his house with his DD14 and DD11. We do not see each other often, but we talk on the phone all of the time. He always answers my calls or texts. I actually feel like being apart is making us stronger. I will NEVER move back in his house simply because it was HIS house that he picked out with HIS 2nd wife. I never felt like it was mine.