Hello Eveyrone,

Thank you again for the responses. My date went very well, You have to remember that I know this man, not really well, but we do share a common interest, so there is a sense of comfort. 3 years ago we dated (2) never slept together, I was still in nursing school and he was going through divorce.

Anyways,,,dinner was great we talked about what we had been doing… blah blah, he tells me he has dated a woman for a few months, she was moving too fast and had a little girl the kids did meet. I did share about my dating that he and a lot going on, and I did mention that I met the kids and I slept in another room. (everyone I tell raises their eyebrows??)
Ugh… I said I am not bitter and I am not discouraged to date men with children, he says why would you be? He just wasn't the one: everyone is different. HUH :}
What I noticed most was how together he was, he talked about the ex, but no complaining, moaning groaning. She has bought new house with boyfriend, there agreement is intact, it seems lax and he gets his kids more than the agreement states. They are 5 and 7. He seems happy and content. I wasn't sure how I was feeling, We sat close but no hand holding. At the end of the night I leave and he kisses me good night, OMG it was good…lol

He says he will be in touch, we have quite a few friends in common. I have to say I was a bit surprised at myself, I thought I still needed time to regroup ( I think I still do)
but I didn't feel guilty kissing him..

OK…. let me have it…because I am not wasting 8 months ever again… Eye-wink Eye-wink

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