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on the subject of disengaging....

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Submitted by unknown on Wed, 07/30/2008 - 9:54am

what is one to say to their DH and his parents when they now accuse you of 'not caring' or 'not being interested in' skids' life?

i've disengaged after trying and trying and getting treated like i don't exist and being critiqued as far as my parenting style with skid12. and now, after stepping away from the situation, i am being criticized for not caring and not being involved.

i can't win. either way. suggestions?

tell me what's worse: a skid that yells obscenities in your face, or

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Submitted by unknown on Sun, 07/27/2008 - 8:32pm

a skid that 100% ignores you and acts like you don't exist and at times, even acts as if you have some hideous disease that makes his skin crawl?

my weekend this weekend was a heartbreak. went to visit skid at his grandparents before we move next weekend. he wouldn't even look at me. he was rude, he refused to talk to me, would not make eye contact. this is a child who i have tried and tried with. treated with respect, went out of my way for and have had heart to heart talks with. he clearly hates me and i believe this when i say this, wishes i was dead.

wills regarding skids and bio kids

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Submitted by unknown on Sat, 07/05/2008 - 9:46am

i have a question for you guys. recently my DH and i did our wills. our biodaughter (1) is with us and his son (12) lives with his mother and his stepdad. when we did our wills, my DH was adamant that we split everything half and half between SS12 and biodaughter 1. i asked why and his answer was 'it wouldn't be fair.' and i replied, 'but if we were to both die at the same time, SS12 has his mother and stepdad to support him and take care of him. his needs will be looked after. our daughter will have NO parents left and will need all the help she can get!