So I have a 19 year old step daughter who is visiting for a month. She walks into the house, does not utter a word of greeting to me, all her dirty dishes she piles into the sink and leaves her utensils lying around in the living room. Just plain rude!!! We have very little conversation. I am waiting until she leaves to talk to my husband about his daughter's behavior...I don't want to be seen as the angry step mother.