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Oh the manipulation and coddling

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Submitted by TrueNorth77 on Mon, 12/26/2022 - 11:34am

When SD13 got in trouble last Monday, she said the magical words that now have DH coddling her and refusing to tell her no. She told DH "I know you don't love me". *eyeroll*. Her reasons are "he never goes up to her bedroom to talk to her, and never asks her to play board games, she always has to ask him". I told her that she is 13- when we were her age we were in our rooms and parents didn't come to sit and talk and ask to play games. I mean for real. We had our own lives! This is all Crazy talking anyway, telling SD DH is a terrible parent because he doesn't do these things.

About ready to divorce this man

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Submitted by TrueNorth77 on Mon, 11/28/2022 - 10:51am

On Friday, DH, SD13 and I went to get a tree. We got home, DH brought all the totes of Christmas decorations up from the basement, I got out the lights and said I planned to put up lights outside first since it was a rare nice day (but about to get dark). Meanwhile, the dishes in the dishwasher are clean and need to be put away, and dirty dishes are piling up in the sink- this is skids chore. DH and I have gone rounds about this. He just will almost never make them do them. And HE doesn't do them, which means if no one else does them, I'M the one doing them.

Best way to keep a psycho BM out of your space?

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Submitted by TrueNorth77 on Thu, 11/17/2022 - 2:52pm

So after last wknd when Crazy wrote DH saying I should be taking SD to Dr. appts, which only helps her, since DH has no issues taking SD on his time, and then she then spewed a bunch of nasty things about me on OFW, I came to the conclusion that I still hate her with the heat of a thousand fiery suns. 

Fast forward to this week when I'm living my best life- skid-free, DH is on 2nd shift (sorry DH, I love you, but I also love alone time)- I have the entire house to myself, the fireplace lit. I'm relaxed and it's amazing. . 

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