So this is my first post, guess I should give a little background. First of all I have 2 DS 15 and 16 that I was a single mother for many years and while I know I'm not even close to perfect I feel that I have managed to raise 2 fairly responsible children. (I.e. neither of them have ever come home drunk, had any trouble with the police, repeated a grade, or had any major trouble at school. The worst was a short streak when youngest tried skipping classes a few times got caught and was punished.)