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BF wants custody of his daughter; I don't; We live together

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Hi. I live with my boyfriend. He has an 11 year old daughter that he sees every other weekend. Due to some ongoing issues with his daughter, he recently announced that he wants to try for full custody of her. I have no kids of my own, and he's known from almost day one (almost 9 years ago) that I would never be OK with him having full custody. When he TOLD me about this recently, he didn't discuss this with me and won't because he said he already knows how I feel about the situation. We got in a huge fight, and he said that I don't care about his feelings and I'm not being supportive.

BF wants custody of his daughter; I don't; We live together

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Hi. I live with my boyfriend. He has an 11 year old daughter that he sees every other weekend. Due to some ongoing issues with his daughter, he recently announced that he wants to try for full custody of her. I have no kids of my own, and he's known from almost day one (almost 9 years ago) that I would never be OK with him having full custody. When he TOLD me about this recently, he didn't discuss this with me and won't because he said he already knows how I feel about the situation. We got in a huge fight, and he said that I don't care about his feelings and I'm not being supportive.

10 yr old with secret facebook account posting pics and friending adult males?!?!

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Hi. First time posting. Looking for some advice soon please! I live with my bf, been in his daughter's life since she was 3 off and on. He has his 10 yr old daughter every other weekend and summer and xmas extended visits. I just found a fb page in his daughter's name that no one else knew she had. She is posting provocative pics, friends with a ton of adult males in and out of the US and putting up posts such as "Who wants my phone #?" I am freaking out here and appalled because god knows what she has already been exposed to via private messages on facebook.