I have reached the point where I can't stand mini-BM, aka my step daughter. She's snotty, she's whiny, she insists the world revolves around her, and she is a pig. She's been "home" for 2 days, and my perfectly pristine house has traces of her all over it. Shoes in every corner, coats and sweaters draped over every chair, electronics all over my counters, crumbs, dirty dishes. I am not a maid. I ask her to clean up after herself, and then I have to tell her EVERY. SINGLE. ITEM. to pick up.