Now that I'm expecting my own baby I think about all the times that I resented my boyfriend's children.I wonder now if we were to break up would his new gf or wife ressent our baby like I did his. How could I sheild my child from this? Somethings that come to mind. I think that if we were to break up that I would only ask him to keep our child every other weekend. I would not try to put my child off on some other woman, if he doesn't want to keep our baby.