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SS14 MISBEHAVES THEN GETS TO PLAY VIDEO GAMES??
Submitted by TBILL on Sun, 12/20/2009 - 8:56pm.

I DON'T UNDERSTAND....SOMEBODY PLEASE HELP ME OUT HERE, I'M O.K. WITH HEARING THAT I'M
CRAZY OR BEING TOO SENSITIVE....MY 14 YEAR OLD SS COULDN'T HATE ME ANYMORE THAN HE
ALREADY DOES. TO BE HONEST I'M DONE KISSING HIS ASS TRYING TO HAVE HIM LIKE ME!! SO
I'VE BEEN TAKING A BACK SEAT MORE HANDS OFFISH APPROACH. I JUST LISTEN DON'T DO MUCH
TALKING. THE THING THAT IRRITATES ME IS THAT AFTER HE BEHAVES AS A REAL JERK STARING AT
THE WALL DURING A MEAL, NOT ANSWERING ME OR INTERACTING IN ANY WAY WHAT SO EVER, EVEN WITH
GUEST WE HAVE IN THE HOUSE HE STILL GETS THE PRIVILEGE OF PLAYING XBOX 360 AND PRETTY MUCH
GOING ABOUT HIS USUAL DAY. HE DOESN'T HAVE ANY DOWNSIDE AS FAR AS I CAN SEE FOR BEHAVING THE
WAY HE DOES. ITS REALLY FRUSTRATING. TONIGHT AT DINNER AFTER HIS DAD TOOK HIM TO SEE A MOVIE
ALONE, HIS DAD WAS TRYING TO MAKE CONVERSATION BY SAYING THAT THE SS14 SAID IT WAS THE BEST
MOVIE HE HAD EVER SEEN. SO I RESPONDED TO SS14 BY SAYING REALLY? HE TOTALLY IGNORED ME THEN
LOOKED AT HIS DAD WHO SAID ANSWER HER SHE IS SPEAKING TO YOU THEN HE HAD THE NERVE TO SAY I
DID. OH MY GOODNESS SO HE'S MEANING TO TELL US THAT ALL THREE OF US LOOKING AT HIM DIDN'T HEAR
OR SEE HIM RESPOND?? MY GOD, HE HONESTLY THINKS WE ARE SO STUPID THAT HE'S GOING TO CONVINCE US
THAT WE ALL MUST OF BLINKED DURING THE CONVERSATION.....UGH. SO FRUSTRATED.
BUT THAT'S OK BECAUSE HE WILL JUST HEAD DOWN TO THE BASEMENT AND PLAY X-BOX WHEN
WE GET HOME. WHICH WAS EXACTLY WHAT HAPPENED.
- SO DEFEATED.
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Comments

Kb3Hooah's picture

It sounds more like your DH is the problem than your SS. SS's behavior is just the result of DH's lack of discipline.

Has your DH established the rules and consequences for the house with SS? If not, he should, and it should be consistent otherwise it won't do any good.

BTW...one of the rules should be to respect ALL adults (which would include you), if not.....no XBOX!

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vgill's picture

I am in the same situation except I have 2 SS's who are absolute brats and are extreamly disrespectful and selfish, lazy,and have this attitude of entitlement, and DH is some of the problem, Same here, It is just easier to give them their way instead of fighting with them and afraid that they may go live with Bm, so buying their love, while our other children go without!! Maybe you'll get lucky and SS will go live elsewhere!!

soverysad's picture

delete

"God is great, beer is good, and people are crazy" and you can't change crazy!!