I am coming up to my wits end! My husband's ex is an absolute psycho and it is killing our life. Couple things: when I say psycho, I mean certifiable and a master manipulator. Second, we try/ have tried nearly everything to keep her from affecting us, -engaging, ignoring, trying, not trying, meditating, exercising- you name it, we've tried it. Some has worked and some hasn't and it's been helpful but the hits seem to just keep coming.