So I have this delimma and I really don't want to cause a huge fight over it, but my husband promised me that on the 4th of July it could be just me him and our daughter. Now he has changed his mind and said well why can't the other two come meaning the SD's. I just believe that haveing holidays just the people we live with full-time is a thing we just need to do. Plus the SD's wine about everything and the oldest is so clingy she doesn't want anyone near my husband. It is just plain annoying. :? I was actually was super excited and started makeing plans with our friends and their kids.