I married my husband 2.5 years ago - we met 5 years ago after the death of his first wife. I have 3 adult step-daughters - ages 23, 27 and 29. The oldest is the problem. From what my husband tells me she has always been sort of the clumsy or dorky one in the family. The other girls are hard workers, college graduates, great jobs. The oldest got her associates degree in elementary education but was fired from the first 3 places she worked after a couple of weeks. She has a very "attention seeking personality" and I believe her to be narcissistic.