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I'm dumped

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My husband and our family put up the Christmas tree last night, all was loving and fun. This morning he kissed me goodbye when I left for the store. While I was gone, he packed his things, took the dog and left. Sent me an email that he never wants to speak to me again and he will serve me divorce papers Monday. How do I move forward? I've cared for his three young kids for over 5 years and he has cared and loved my two teens.... I don't know why he left or won't talk. I don't understand....

Diagnosed Personality Disorder

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Terribly sad, my 15 SD is Borderline Personality and currently being admitted into an inpatient hospital for being a danger to herself. We have known she struggled and is different but I'm only 4 years in and haven't been told everything. So I've been educating myself and have heard this condition is from a multitude of factors but mostly genetics. I have seen my troubles in print! I think I married someone with BPD or Narcissistic Disorder. It's now coming out her mother has BPD too! No wonder I've been confused and in turmoil, beating myself up over nonsensical complaints from them.