I am SM to 2 SC.  I have my children 24/7 and we have husbands generally every weekend during school year and then summers during work week. But now w Covid 19 they come when they have there laundry clean. And leave when it needs done. We don't do kids laundry as we feel all the kids are old enough to do their own laundry. What I need to vent about is SS is 18 ADHD. Eats all the time. Sleeps most of day and is awake mist nights which means he is downstairs making meals. Not snacks! Meals!  I have to label food for him not to touch but even then dies not stop him.