Ok, for the past several months, we have not had any contact with SS11. We have been uncertain as to his whereabouts, b/c BB has been moving back and forth, not returning calls, etc. Recently, I saw her blog on myspace (posted in my previous blog)and realizing that she was moving out of her mom's, to an apt. of her own. SS would not be living w/her. To make matters worse she was leaving him w/her felonious mother. Which means he will be going out on numerous repos(his GM chosen profession)on school nights, just like the good ol' days. So, basically, while she collects hubby's hard earned CS money-she's also given up complete responsibility for SS, as he interferes with her nightlife.
So, me being the cunnung woman that I am, came up with a plan, albeit a sneaky one.I created a myspace profile posing as a wealthy handsome man, with lots of things in common with her. She accepted me as a friend right away! OMG!!! So we began to chat, and after awhile I divulged a story pertaining to my chilhood(Which I made very similar to SS's) and spoke of how painful it was to cope with parental alienation, being as how my son was taken from me. Purely fictional- but you know what? Today, after several months, SS called!!!! We get to see him next weekend!!!!!I will probably never tell DH just what I did, he would flip out, but it makes me happy knowing that this action may have been the catalyst for the change in events. It was soooo good to hear his voice!!!! My oldest BS who talks about SS and misses him daily almost cried tears of joy b/che was able to talk to his big brother.
Now,I know what I did was a tad dishonest; however wih as many lies and crap she has hurled at us over the last 7 years, can ya blame me?
Anyway, the funny thing is about BB, she brags about being drunk and partying all the time, and told my male alter-ego that since her son is old enough, she supported his decision in living with her mother. There is a difference between being supportive and being permissive, and she's about as permissive and lazy as they come. Shit why not give us a crack at raising him!!! Or why not get a day job and raise him in a normal part of town? But why on earth would she ever put that child's needs first? Simply not her agenda.
Keep your finger crossed for us please ladies,that we are able to see him next weekend!!!