My name is steve, I have been married for 6 years and have two daughter's 6 and 8. My third daughter, my step daughter is 13. My relationship with her is horrendous. I can barley stand to be in the same room with her. She is disrespectful, spoiled, just plain nasty. She has had an attitude with me since I decided to wait on any adoption proceedings. Her father is non existent, he never calls or sends cards. For my daughter, she claims to be ok with this. I suspect this is not the case.