My husband and I have been married for about 18 months. We each have a daughter from previous relationships and we also have OUR son. My daughter is 6, his is 4 and neither of them seems to understand that we are happy and we want them to be as well. Instead we have two little monsters who are constantly fighting with us and each other. My daughter sticks to trying to be the victim and turn me against my husband and stepdaughter and his daughter takes the more subtle route of making snide comments when Daddy's not looking. The boy, however, is wonderful.