I have been a SM for over 10 years, known sd for most of her life. Now she is 14, and hates me for an error I made. I have apologized, but she will not forgive me, nor will she reply to any attempts to talk to her. She is now in TX, we are in OH. Her mom moved them there less than two months before my husband got back from Iraq. (Thus, my grave error, called her mother a crazy, selfish, bitch. She is, has 7 kids from 3 men and left last man with cancer, dying and moved to TX. He died about a month after they left.