So...my SD had the baby and both are good.  I didn't go to hospital with my H because I didn't feel like I was welcome there.  I wanted to go and he wanted me to go,  but  I didn't.  Things are getting a little better with H.  I told him that me and SD were alot alike and therefore we cannot coexist in the same house.  We can be around each other for awhile visiting but to live together is like pouring gas on a fire!  I hate to say this but I pray she doesnt try to move back again.  He put the offer back on the table for her and  we had words again over that!  Since we have moved we havent