The only arguments my husband and I have are about his kids. They run the house I pretty much stay in my room while they are here. They decide what to do and what we have for dinner. They are allowed to stay up late on school nights and are sometimes loud. We have them half the time. Just waiting till they are grown and leave the house. The oldest who is 18 is so lazy. I see him as a permanent resident which drives me nuts.  My husband pays for everything. There mom who gets lots of money for support never even offers.