Okay, I've been with my husband for 7 years now. One thing I have to say is he always stuck by me and we parent together. The fact is, my EX-husband left and moved to an island, remarried and never looked back to my children, so my husband is an excellent father to them both. And my husbands ex wife? a snake. She poisioned her kids against me from the start and she is on her 9th husband already and had a swinging door so what do you think her daughters turned out to be???