BM claimed the skids on her taxes although DH has primary custody and they are with us two-thirds of the time. So, I mailed our paper return yesterday with the kids on it and I know it's going to take like six months to get it sorted out, but BM is in for a nasty surprise and I can't WAIT!

I just responded to a blog and recommended the poster let go of that they cannot control. As I was about to hit save, I was handed a letter to the editor from a coworker and it just said this:

John Wesley said,
"Do all the good you can,
By all the means you can,
In all the ways you can,
In all the places you can,
At all the times you can,
To all the people you can,
As long as ever you can.”

I recently posted a blog (which I have since deleted because of all the detailed info in it) with a letter of complaint I submitted to the AG's office.

DH got a court order in May zeroing out his CS balance because he's had custody of the kids for two years with no CS from BM. It was a sizable sum. This debt had held us in financial limbo and was keeping us from filing our last three tax returns so the money wouldn't go to BM.

I saw a trailer for a soon to be released movie I'd really like to see called "Cyrus." It seems like it deals with the nightmares of dealing with an adult stepchild. The two "parents" are played by John C. Reilly and Marissa Tomei and the stepkid is that chubby guy from Superbad. From what I gathered from the trailer it seems to be done in a comical, yet real and touching way. Sort of like "The Squid and the Whale" which if you haven't seen that - it's an awesome look at a marriage with children that breaks up and how they all deal with it.