Navigating through an issue. I don't know if I am in the wrong. Without giving too much back story first I am a step mom to 8SS. We are not married but have been together for almost 8years. However I was not in 8SS life until he was about 2.5. BM had a very very rocky start but over the years have become drama free and friendly.That is to say we are drama free if no one says anything about anything.  And we choose not to rock the boat for our sanity.