well this is my firt time and I am so glad that this site is here. I thought I was alone. I have a 14old dh my DH has two grl two boys ages 18sd 16sd 14ss 8ss the 18,14, live with us and the 16sd lives with the EX the 8ss goes two weeks there two weeks with us. The EX- has had near to nothing to do with her 18yrold or 14yrold and had the nerve to leave a nasty message on DH cell that we keep them from her she lives on the other side of the the school and we live on the opp side. walking distance. she announced that SHE IS THERE MOTHER and I need to realize this. This EX-.....