My hubby and I have been married 3 years but together for 5. We have a daughter together and I have a son from a previous relationship.My SD has always gave me trouble. Her mom died two years ago. Her brother and her moved in with us. She's rough! She's been diagnosed with conduct disorder. She beats people in the head, kills animals, is very selfish, keys peoples cars, compulsive liar. Someone is always in trouble at my house because of her(until I wised up) If I fix her hair, she messes it up. She whined for two weeks for me to re-pierce her ears, she took them out. If I lay out her clothes according to weather, she changes. Her dad seems to think I'm too hard on her and for me to go lightly on her because she doesnt have a BM. The thing about that is that she was doing this since she was 2yrs old and her mom was alive. She's a brat! She'll go to her grandparents house and tell them I beat her! I've had DSS called on me quite a few times due to her lies. They finally quit coming when they got the calls because it was so much lying. I have already been to the Dr. and been on meds just to deal with her. I quit taking them because I refuse to be medicated because she hates everybody. I've tried the whole nice thing and take her places and do things for her but she takes advantage of me and I will not leave my children out of anything anymore to please her cause it does not work! Advice needed before I go insane!