feeling betrayed
while the time my husband and I were seperated which whas 3 months, he's ex got close to me...we were even FB Friends and she even offered to help me transport my Son from my previous marriage to school with my step son......and I even helped her with some car problems she had...........she would even vent to me of how the guy she was seeing wasn't giving her the time....etc...........so I trusted her........until one day I noticed she changed her Fabebook Cover page to a pic of her, my stepdaughter(graduating from 8th grade) and my husband........and My husband did the same thing on he's facebook, so right away I thought the worst of course my first impulse was to Text him but I didn't........but I was hurting and felt betrayed by her...I mean she's a woman and even though him and I were seperated it didnt' mean we were done or didn't love each other........and then a few days later I see that she is with my husband and their 2 kids at a fair in SAN diego? I just found out like a month ago and I confronted my husband and he said, oh I thought she was just being nice and knew I was depressed, to me I feel that she was hoping things would turn her way! Since that day I have reseted my boundaries with her. I feel she crossed a line! what do you think?>
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Your HUSBAND crossed the
Your HUSBAND crossed the line. I wouldn't be surprised if he was actually "with" BM at the time. I would strongly recommend you get to the bottom of it if you think this marriage is worth saving but to me, the red flags are too much, I'd walk based on these alone.
I Ireally don't think my
I Ireally don't think my husband was with her because during the separation she was still with this one guy and my husband knows......I truly feel that he has no feelings for her in that area but I think she does
I totally Feel betrayed by
I totally Feel betrayed by both...but i confronted him and he says No babe, I just went because she bought the tickets and she said, it was for the kids.........the whole time I was at the fair all I did was talk about you.,,,and how depressed I was and I was not seeing our Baby. We have an 8 month baby.......I swear you know everything..........So I want to say I do believe him, even though I still say it was VERY WRONG.......But I will keep my eyes open........she even deleted the FB post were she was tagged by my stepdaughter including her in the Fair ..........so all this is very suspicious to me.............He knows me and he knows this will be bugging me until I get to the bottom of it.........plus now that we are back, he is being super lovable to me, even bought me a NEW SUV, taking me out for the weekends.........and he say's he appreciates me so much more now and that he never want to loose me again??? I wonder at times if he just feels guilty or scare of me finding out more stuff??? But in regards to the ex wife I have no mor contact with her and she will not be that close to us anymore
I thought it was the best so
I thought it was the best so the kids wouldn't see me as an evil stepmom and I guess be one of those modern moms........but I learned my lesson..............Now I don't care, I would be Cordial with her but that's it.........and I will not trust them and I will come to the bottom of this
Why would your husband change
Why would your husband change his FB page to a picture with his ex? Yeah, sorry but he's lying.
Ya know that saying, 'Don't feed the animals'? There's another one, 'Don't befriend the ex'.
yes, he changed the FB Cover
yes, he changed the FB Cover page to a pic of them 3 together. OF course he's explanation now is what is wrong with that....But I know he did it to see if he would get a reaction from me because I had recently told him that I was not going to be taking our baby to him anymore that if he wanted to see her he could come and visit at my place. so after that he was just doing anything to get back at me.......but I never said anything to him or her, eventhough I was dying inside......plus they both did it the same day with the same pic? so yes, a good woman who means well will never do that.....she knew it would hurt me........it was done intentionally by both of them
He was depressed, and she
He was depressed, and she knew how to get him........and of course she used their kids as a way of getting him to do. Hey, I was wondering if you would go with us to the Fair, it's father's Day and I got 4 tickets? Plus I thought since I will be taking the kids out of state for the summer for a whole month this would be a nice treat for you.......And OF COURSE HE WENT.....BUT she wasn't being NICE she was hoping things would turn her way...because she is soooo desperated for a man that she doesn't care what status the guy gives her. So she wouldn't care if my husband didn't love her, he would be with him as long as he wanted........I remember one time she told me, Yes I am seeing this guy who won't kiss me at all, but I am happy just with the time he gives me, until he finds the right woman for him to marry........WTH!!! So yes, this woman has no moral values......I have kept my distance and I told my husband I trust you and believe that you went for the kids and that you have no feelings for her. But I can't say the same about her, so I no longer will communicate with her or welcome her in our home.
they both posted that pic for
they both posted that pic for their daughter's 8th graduation which was june 6th.....2 weeks later he was looking for me........so no she didn't win at all.........I personally think he just went to go.......but her intentions were to get him back......she even asked if he would get her from the LAX Airport...which of course he did, but by that time he had already looked for me, invited me out......and that was the first think he told me, babe just so you know, there is nothing going on with her & I........she asked if I could get her from the airport and I said yes......that's all..........of course I knew what she was doing.......so the day he drove to get her, he was on the phone texting me...calling me,.,I think just so I wouldn't think something wrong etc...........I even suggested that maybe they should stop and eat something because of traffic(of course I was just testing him lol) and he's response was NO, I just want to drive and get to YOU as soon as possible........
I can honestly say I don't
I can honestly say I don't believe he had sex with her. She is not good looking at all.......he don't see her that way.....unless he was very desperate...lol.........But if he did sleep with her I would never forgive him.........cheating is something I can never forgive......especially during our sepeation I went thru hell......dealt with our baby on my own....caring for my other 3 kids.....but I believe in Karma very much.,....if he did sleep with her, he will pay for it......
at times I wonder why the big
at times I wonder why the big change with me, why is he soooo nice with me......it's like all of a sudden he wants to give me everything.....he just bought me a new Suv, he is also paying my car loan, that I had before meeting him.......got me a membership to a spa place....weekend getaways.........I wonder if he feels guilty for something? like cheating?
and to the EX, now that him & I are back together she has also distant herself from me......so it's very obvious she was hoping to get him back.........