let me tell you a story that just sent me over the top, several weeks ago, bw put her foot down on the tv on during homework, of course ss was not happy about it, he would do his homework with the tv on full volume almost, of course all his favorite programs on the big screen, so anyway 1 night I was getting ready for band rehearsal, was anxious to audition a new backup singer, and my wife was anxious to hear the singers demo, I had a disc, ss was doing homework in the living room no tv on, of course he was pissed off, I was on my way out the door when my wife wanted to hear the demo real quick, so I popped it in the living room stereo, it was just a 3 minute song, and guess what? SS tells bw to turn it down because it was disturbing has homework, and she did, after all the loud tv watching and ipod listening, during homework, my demo was disturbing him, after my wife turned it down I walked over, took the disk out of the stereo, and told my wife I might not come home tonight, I was pissed off, I don't know if it was more it because he wanted to turn down, or that she actually did, aggggghhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!